Colette Pervette: The Power of Soft Dominance

Today Eamon  and Madeline  welcome a true legend in the world of kink: the illustrious Domina and educatrix, Colette Pervette. Known for her signature blend of softness and strength, Colette embodies the kind of dominance that disrupts expectations—sensual, grounded, and spiritually attuned. On the show, Eamon, Madeline, and Colette explore kink archetypes, the artistry of dominance, and the transformative power of shadow work. Colette opens up about her pedagogical journey—from training professional mistresses around the world to launching her groundbreaking new offering, The Shadow Series. The conversation also dives into the delicate dance of power and integrity and the necessity of reclaiming softness in powerful spaces.Colette Pervette is a San Francisco–based dominatrix, educator, and visionary creator. Colette fuses academic rigor with the erotic arts, developing immersive experiences and courses that guide individuals through personal transformation using kink as a sacred tool. She’s trained hundreds of women in the art of domination and continues to shift the cultural narrative around power, healing, and sexuality.Timestamps(08:26) Writing in Bed and Creative Expression(12:50) Living for the Plot(25:30) Exploring the Shadow Self Through Kink(30:02) The Therapeutic Power of Kink(35:00) The Joy and Playfulness in Kink(37:59) Diverse Styles of Domination(47:39) The Importance of Safety and Communication(58:44) The Cultural Impact of KinkLinksColette Pervette, PhD (@colettepervette)Colette PervetteColette Pervette on Life is a Festival