Ep 78: Swinger Discretion: How Not to Get Caught (Sex, Lies & Alibis)

🔎 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo break down one of the most underrated skills in the swinger lifestyle: discretion and how not to get caught. Living a swinger double life is one thing - living it without getting caught is another. We dive into the real-world privacy mistakes that expose swingers fast: burner phones, locked screens, fake calendar entries, sloppy alibis, and the Bluetooth auto-play nightmare no one warns you about. This episode covers practical swinger discretion strategies for couples trying to balance non-monogamy with work, family, and real-life responsibilities - especially for those who aren’t “out” yet. If you’re new to swinging or already navigating the lifestyle quietly, this is your guide to staying private without killing the fun. Because the first rule of the lifestyle? Don’t get caught being in the lifestyle. And the second rule? Deny, deny, deny.   🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free!     🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*  Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://VanillaSwingers.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Swinger Discretion: How Not to Get Caught (Sex, Lies & Alibis) https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-privacy-tips-how-not-to-get-caught/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@VanillaSwingers⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us